Here is an easy question to ponder:  Is line A short or long?  Light or dark?  
     Line A:     -----------------------       What if I offered line B?  ======== Thoughts?  Without a contrast or comparison Line A is neither short nor dark it simply is. Just like your friend Bill. He isn’t smart or dumb, tall or fat, nice or mean, Bill simply is. He is only those things when we JUDGE him. In order for us to make these judgements we need to engage the Ego. It is only through the lens of our Ego that things become good or bad. This is the source of all of our pain in life. We judge simple events that occur all around us all the time and then based on these judgements we experience emotions that color our day.  What if we were able to stop judging and simply experience the world as it truly is and not as how we have colored it. Traffic jams become si